Understanding and Managing Stress: Psychological Strategies to Reset the Nervous System

Stress is an inherent part of modern life. From work demands and family responsibilities to financial pressures and health concerns, many individuals experience persistent levels of psychological and physiological tension. While short-term stress can be motivating or protective, chronic stress has been shown to affect both the body and brain in significant ways.

This article outlines how stress affects the nervous system and offers evidence-informed strategies to support regulation and recovery.

The Impact of Chronic Stress on the Brain and Body

When the brain perceives a threat — whether physical, emotional, or environmental — it activates the sympathetic nervous system, also known as the “fight or flight” response. This results in increased heart rate, rapid breathing, muscle tension, and the release of stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline.

While this response is adaptive in the short term, long-term activation can lead to difficulties with concentration, memory, sleep, mood, and immune function. Over time, chronic stress can contribute to emotional exhaustion and burnout.

In the brain, stress may:

• Reduce activity in areas responsible for memory and emotional regulation

• Increase sensitivity in the amygdala, the brain’s fear and alarm centre

• Disrupt connectivity between brain regions needed for planning and reflection

Regulating the Nervous System: The Role of the Parasympathetic Response

To counterbalance the effects of chronic stress, the body relies on the parasympathetic nervous system — often referred to as the “rest and digest” system. Activation of this system supports physical recovery, emotional regulation, and cognitive clarity.

There are accessible, evidence-informed practices that can promote this state of regulation and help the nervous system return to balance.

Four Psychology-Based Techniques to Support Stress Recovery

1. 4–7–8 Breathing

This controlled breathing technique can help reduce physiological arousal and support nervous system regulation.

Instructions:

• Inhale through the nose for 4 seconds

• Hold the breath for 7 seconds

• Exhale slowly through the mouth for 8 seconds

• Repeat for several cycles, ideally in a quiet, uninterrupted space

The extended exhalation helps activate the vagus nerve and reduce sympathetic activity. This technique may be particularly helpful when experiencing anxiety, tension, or difficulty sleeping.

2. Grounding Through Sensory Awareness (5-4-3-2-1 Method)

Grounding techniques are designed to reconnect an individual with the present moment, particularly when they feel overwhelmed or emotionally dysregulated.

Steps:

• Name 5 things you can see

• Name 4 things you can touch

• Name 3 things you can hear

• Name 2 things you can smell

• Name 1 thing you can taste

This exercise helps to anchor attention to the immediate environment using the senses, which can interrupt cycles of worry, panic, or dissociation.

3. Time in Nature

Even brief periods in natural environments have been shown to have a calming effect on the nervous system. Regular exposure to green spaces can improve attention, reduce physiological stress markers, and support overall wellbeing.

Practical suggestions include:

• Spending 10–15 minutes in a garden, park, or woodland area

• Walking or sitting in outdoor settings with trees, water, or sky

• Observing natural details, such as leaves, birdsong, or cloud movement

Engagement with nature provides gentle sensory input and promotes a restorative state of mind.

4. Practising Self-Compassion

Self-compassion involves responding to personal suffering or perceived inadequacy with kindness and understanding, rather than criticism or avoidance. Psychological research indicates that self-compassion supports emotional resilience, reduces anxiety, and promotes adaptive coping.

Key elements of self-compassion include:

• Acknowledging distress without judgement

• Recognising that difficulties are a universal part of being human

• Offering oneself warmth, support, or soothing behaviour (such as placing a hand on the chest or speaking kindly to oneself)

Developing a compassionate inner voice can help reduce self-imposed pressure and support long-term emotional regulation.

Conclusion

While it may not be possible to eliminate all sources of stress, individuals can learn to support their own nervous systems in recovering from it. Practices such as breath regulation, sensory grounding, time in nature, and self-compassion are not only simple and accessible but also grounded in psychological research.

Over time, these strategies can contribute to greater calm, clarity, and emotional resilience.

If you are feeling overwhelmed or would benefit from tailored support, counselling can provide a safe, confidential space to explore your experiences and develop effective strategies for managing stress.

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